| Life Line | March 10, 2004 | Volume 1: Issue 2 |
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Perhaps the first point to make about Mel Gibson's
The Passion of the Christ (Rated R for extreme violence,
2 hour 7 minutes, English subtitles) is that it is not for children.
Yet neither was footage from 9-11-01, but parents and teachers
watched with kids, comforted them, consoled them, and even taught
them about good and evil. The decision to allow children under
12 to see this movie must be made after viewing it first, and
after considering one's ability to teach, comfort and edify
children in light of the film. |
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![]() Dear Light & life, My fiance is Jewish and I am Orthodox. We want to get married but he does not want to convert out of respect for his relatives who died in the Holocaust. Can we be married in the Church? Tampa, Florida The Orthodox Church does not perform marriages between Orthodox and non-Christians. If an Orthodox Christian goes ahead and marries outside the Church s/he is no longer in full communion with the Church. The logical, follow-up question is, "why"? Marriage, according to the Orthodox theology, is not just a contract or union between a man and a woman, but is a union between a man and a woman within Christ. And it is Christ Himself who unites the couple. That is why the Orthodox formulae in the betrothal and marriage services are in the passive voice. The priest says: "The servant of God (name of the groom) is betrothed…"; "The servant of God (name of the bride) is crowned…" Christ makes the two "become one flesh." How can one who does not believe in Christ be united with his/her spouse and Christ? Or, why would a non-believer want to be united in a deity in whom they don't believe? This is why St. Paul instructs, "Be ye not unequally yoked together with an unbeliever" (2 Corinthians 6:14). Without Christ there can only be an unequal human "yolking" or union. Two human beings can effect a psychological, sociological (civil) or physical union, but the spiritual/mystical union that completes and sustains Christian marriage requires Christ's power and abiding presence. St. Paul also calls upon Christian spouses to create the "church in the home" (Romans 16:5), and raise the children "in the Lord". Something impossible when one of the couple does not have a Christian church tradition or subscribes to a different "lord." Being a Christian, sometimes, involves difficult choices. Choosing Christ as our Lord and Master makes it impossible for us to be totally united with someone who has a different "lord and master." The best solution is to make sure that Orthodox Christian young people are well aware of the church's rules and rationale and date believing and practicing Christians. It might take time to find a believing Christian spouse, but the union that Christ will effect in the two believing spouses is well worth the wait. If you proceed with your marriage plans, the prayer of the Church is that your Christian example and faith will lead your fiancé to want to know Christ and have Him complete your union. It is not a matter of honoring the memories of those who tragically died, but a commitment to build your marriage on Christ who is the cornerstone and the One who brings true life. by Dan Christopulos Send
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